Not until the thirteenth week, they say. Especially after you've already lost one. You WANT to tell everyone, but if the worst should happen that's a lot more people to update; more questions you'll have to answer when all you want to do is cry. So it's a secret. At least for now. It's especially hard keeping such a secret when you're a first time dad, like Patrick will be. Rest assured he's been climbing the wall to spread it around like Nutella on toast. Me, well I just need somewhere to document all this, so when I hit the thirteenth week I can point people here and say "Here. Get yourself caught up, would ya?" Oh yeah, and to post pictures of food, of course.